I have mentioned dating in the modern world involves the Internet, which is a godsend for people like me; I am so introverted that it hurts. People tell me that there are lots of single women out there and it is easy to pick up, but I can't. Plenty of Fish is a great site it is free and you get to write to them and they to you, but it is not the same. Some people meet up on the site but most people meet up with people off site. Most people have a type that they go for repeatedly and you can only find that type offline. You can't tell who is going to abuse you the way you want to be abused from the way people write to you. I say it that way because most women I know have serial relationships with the same type of people and they complain about it.
People do go out with people online, they go out with the hot ones, the ones that have listed high salaries or professions, they go out with the ones that say the right things all the time. I am none of those people. My foot winds up in my mouth more often than it is on the ground when I walk.
I get discouraged. Often, especially when I have a picture, I get few responses. I don't know if it is because my profile comes over as a creep or as a deviant.
I make a good friend. In the past and present my female friends have tried to help me out, they know that I have good qualities, but they do not want to date me either. The longest time I could not figure it out. Discovery of having AS has helped. But telling people that I have it, does not. How could it? I am also a serial dater. I date friends. I have never been attracted to non friends.
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